Reworking of `lapack_shared_libs` and similar properties (#1682)

* Turned <provider>_libs into an iterable

Modifications :
- added class LibraryList + unit tests
- added convenience functions `find_libraries` and `dedupe`
- modifed non Intel blas/lapack providers
- modified packages using blas_shared_libs and similar functions

* atlas : added pthread variant

* intel packages : added lapack_libs and blas_libs

* find_library_path : removed unused function

* PR review : fixed last issues

* LibraryList : added test on __add__ return type

* LibraryList : added __radd__ fixed unit tests

fix : failing unit tests due to missing `self`

* cp2k and dependecies : fixed blas-lapack related statements in package.py