Various updates to the NCO package and dependencies (#2639)

* Remove +mpi variant from NCO

* Update NCO deps to AutotoolsPackage

* Update the other NetCDF packages to AutotoolsPackage

* ANTLR has a nolink deptype on java, don't worry about csharp

* Remove restrictions from NCO package, fix homepage

* Add version 4.6.3 of NCO

* Missed AutotoolsPackage for NetCDF-CXX4

* NetCDF tests fail when run in parallel

* Remove commented out dependency

* Add documentation dependency