Disable qt3d when opengl is disabled (#15149)

* Disable qt3d when opengl is disabled

* Remove `-skip qtquick3d` unless QT 5.14

Found while checking build of qt 5.14.

var/spack/repos/builtin/packages/qt/package.py

@@ -359,9 +359,6 @@ def common_config_args(self):
             '-{0}opengl'.format('' if '+opengl' in self.spec else 'no-'),
             '-release',
             '-confirm-license',
-            '-openssl-linked',
-            openssl.libs.search_flags,
-            openssl.headers.include_flags,
             '-optimized-qmake',
             '-no-pch',
         ]
@@ -380,7 +377,11 @@ def common_config_args(self):
             config_args.append('-no-freetype')
 
         if '+ssl' in self.spec:
-            config_args.append('-openssl-linked')
+            config_args.extend([
+                '-openssl-linked',
+                openssl.libs.search_flags,
+                openssl.headers.include_flags,
+            ])
         else:
             config_args.append('-no-openssl')
 
@@ -568,6 +569,12 @@ def configure(self, spec, prefix):
         if version >= Version('5.10') and '~opengl' in spec:
             config_args.extend([
                 '-skip', 'webglplugin',
+                '-skip', 'qt3d',
+            ])
+
+        if version >= Version('5.14') and '~opengl' in spec:
+            config_args.extend([
+                '-skip', 'qtquick3d',
             ])
 
         configure(*config_args)