Update spack, dd4hep & podio

.gitlab-ci.yml

containers/jug/dev.Dockerfile

containers/jug/xl.Dockerfile

spack.yaml

spack/README.md

spack/packages/acts/package.py

spack/packages/dd4hep/cmake_language.patch

spack/packages/dd4hep/package.py

spack/packages/dd4hep/tbb-workarounds.patch

spack/packages/dd4hep/tbb2.patch

spack/packages/podio/cmake.patch

spack/packages/podio/cpack.patch

spack/packages/podio/dictloading.patch

spack/packages/podio/package.py